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Introducing a Series on Relationships

Exhilarating, Beautifully Messy, Endlessly Complex—And Everything In Between

Exhilarating, Beautifully Messy, Endlessly Complex—And Everything In Between

19th April 2025, Violetta Nash

I’ve been meaning to write about relationships for a long time — couples dynamics, emotional connection and disconnection, intimacy, conflict, the little ruptures, the bigger rebuilds, love ... the endings.

All the bumps that show up along the way - and where couples therapy can come in.

But honestly? But I kept putting it off.

Every time I sat down to write, I hit a wall.
There’s just so much to say. It felt too big. Too layered. Too complex.

Where do I even begin?

The answer I’ve landed on is simple: Bite-size blogs.

One piece at a time.

One feeling.

One insight.

One gentle conversation at a time.

As you’re already here reading—welcome.
I hope this lands somewhere for you. Speaks to you, or to a part of you.
And if it does—good news: there’s more to come.

I’d love to invite you to begin right where all relationships begin.
The first stop is Love. 🧡

Stay tuned for the next post in this series—where we begin with what love really is, how it lives in our nervous system, and why we’re wired to need it.